Sometimes there is no substitute for selecting contacts one-at-a-time from a list.

The buttons make it easier for you to check just the contacts you want.
Show All
Show Group
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Toggle between All Contacts (the "Everyone" group) and the Current Group.
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Check All /
Uncheck All
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Selects the whole displayed list, making it easier to uncheck just a few.
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Reverse All /
Reverse Selected
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Alternate the selected list. The same as checking the whole list and unchecking a few, or vice versa.
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